Am I doing this wrong ?
When your iPhone was connected to the PC and iTunes, did you click first on the iPhone on the left, then on "Tones" in the right pane, and select your tone?
select, then went to file/synch iphone
see attched screen shot and thank you for your patience with me.
(I think I hate iTunes because I've never done anything in it and had it be easy!)

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Jim Saklad mailto:jimdoc@me.com
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Jim Saklad mailto:jimdoc@me.com